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Staten Island Family Divorce Attorney
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    • Am I Abandoning My Spouse By Leaving The House?

      Recently, I have been meeting prospective clients who are afraid to leave their unhappy marriages and homes for fear of being accused of abandoning their spouses and/or their children. The most ...

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    • Tax Reform: Is It Really Benefiting YOU? A Discussion of How the Disappearance of the Alimony Tax Deduction Will Impact Paying Spouses

      The first half of the year is over and that fact has never been more important to divorcing couples than it is this year, 2018. Why? Because last year, Congress passed a sweeping tax reform law which ...

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    • But I Don't Even Earn That! How Courts Set Child Support and Spousal Support Obligations Using the Income You Don't Have

      "You can’t get blood from a stone”, is the old adage which often gives people comfort when they owe money to a creditor whom they cannot afford to repay. Well, as all of my clients can confirm, I ...

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    • Can I Seek an Annulment From My Spouse for Failure to Consummate?

      Many clients come into our office to consult with our attorneys about whether or not they can get an annulment from their spouse after only a few weeks of marriage. They usually want to ask us if they ...

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    • How Does the Appeals Process Work in New York Family and Supreme Court?

      Have you recently been through a litigated divorce or another family law dispute that ended in your exes’ favor? Does something about what happened during the trial process not sit right with you? ...

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    • Exercising Parenting Time During COVID-19: Non-custodial Parent’s Rights

      Recently I shared on my Facebook page an experience I had helping a non-custodial parent (the father) secure his court-ordered parenting time during the shelter-in-place orders. Last Wednesday, just ...

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    • Relocating with Your Children After a Divorce

      It would be unrealistic to presume that, after a divorce, two individuals would remain in the same area and never consider relocating. Many often choose to relocate to seek a new employment ...

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    • I HAVE 50/50 CUSTODY OF MY CHILDREN, SO WHY AM I PAYING CHILD SUPPORT (New York Edition)

      It is becoming increasingly popular for parents to equally share physical custody with one another. However, New York state statutes have yet to be modified to address the issue of how child support ...

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    • Life insurance and child support go hand-in-hand

      When the court issues a child support order in your Supreme Court case, you should be prepared for the court to require you to provide life insurance for your child(ren). The purpose of life insurance ...

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    • I HAVE 50/50 CUSTODY OF MY CHILDREN, SO WHY AM I PAYING CHILD SUPPORT (New York Edition)

      It is becoming increasingly popular for parents to equally share physical custody with one another. However, New York state statutes have yet to be modified to address the issue of how child support ...

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    • Emancipation! Wait, I May Still Have to Pay Child Support After My Child Turns 18? (New Jersey Edition)

      An eighteen-year-old in the State of New Jersey can obtain a driver’s license, vote, and engage in other activities and decisions reserved for adults. But yes, at age 18 your new adult may aso still ...

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    • Can I Get a Child Support Modification?

      Child support orders are made at the time of the divorce and may have been adequate and doable for your situation at that point. Unfortunately, financial situations change and the needs of children ...

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    • My Spouse Was In It For The Money! I Want It Back!

      Realizing that your spouse was in the marriage for their own financial benefit, and not for love is hurtful. Often, the first instinct would be to ask for everything you have provided for his or her ...

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    • My Divorce Is Easy, It is Uncontested!

      Many people believe that an uncontested divorce equals an easy divorce. The easiest divorces are those where there are no assets and no children. Barring unforeseen issues, these divorces can be as ...

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    • Why Do I Need A Lawyer Anyway?

      Many people who desire a divorce also want to choose the least expensive route. The reasons are many. One might be that the party doing the searching is short on funds. Another might be that the ...

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    • DANGER, DANGER! Think Deep Before You Purchase!!!

      In recent years, it has become increasingly popular for couples to purchase homes together before tying the knot. Getting the keys before the ring has more legal repercussions than most people can ...

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    • What is a Default? (New York Edition)

      When a defendant or respondent fails to respond to your summons in a divorce or family court matter within the time frame provided for by the court, that person has “defaulted.” Every state handles ...

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    • Details Regarding Equitable Distribution in NY Divorce

      Divorce in New York involves equitable distribution of assets. This means that property is divided equitably , not necessarily an equal division. This type of property division is fair and considers ...

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    • Hiring The Bulldog Attorney: Litigating on Emotions, Not Facts

      Allow me to let you in on a little secret: I love to argue. Okay, maybe it’s not such a well -kept secret. Throughout my years of practice as a matrimonial and family court attorney, people have been ...

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    • New Year, New You Without Your Spouse

      Rumor has it that the first of the year brings with it a run on divorce lawyers’ offices as realizations that a marriage isn’t living up to life desires and/or goals become intensified with the ...

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    • Protecting Yourself and Your Family While Navigating the Choppy Waters of the Divorce Process

      Divorce and Family Law legal matters are easily the most intense situations one can endure. When going through a divorce, child custody, child support, domestic violence or other family law matter, it ...

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    • Why Don’t You Offer Free Consultations?

      Potential new clients often call our offices looking for a free meeting with me. Yes, I do charge a fee for an initial meeting. While my team does explain the reason for the fee, I thought it best to ...

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    • Secure your own oxygen mask before trying to help others.

      This statement is not just an airline travel fact, but a lesson on how to proceed in a divorce when you are the supporting spouse. As the primary wage earner, it is easy to forget about yourself as ...

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    • Turning Fear Into Power When Happily Ever After Fades Away®: The Series ©

      FEAR OF FINANCIAL INSTABILITY One of the fears that keep people in a dysfunctional marriage is that of financial instability. In order to conquer this fear, make sure to know as much as possible about ...

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    • Momma's Baby, Daddy's Maybe: Part One

      When I was a little girl, my mother had a saying that she would use: "Momma's baby; daddy's, maybe!" While I was too young to understand the true meaning of the phrase back then, the practice of ...

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    • Do I have to elect my ex as the beneficiary on my pension or retirement benefits?

      Just like the money in your bank account, pensions and retirement benefits are marital property. Because of that, even though your spouse did not work for the benefit, he or she is entitled to share ...

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    • But it’s my pension!

      I often say that many of my clients want to protect their pensions from their spouses with the same fervor that they would protect a vital organ. During a divorce, it can seem unfair to have to share ...

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    • LGBTQ Divorces on Staten Island

      Just a few short years ago, same sex, transgender and LGBTQ marriages were illegal. After the dust has settled on the Supreme Court Decision which corrected the moral and legal wrong of those marriage ...

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    • Supreme Court Decision Regarding Same-Sex Marriage Still Hot Issue

      All across the nation, the United States Supreme Court ruling on June 26 th that legalized same-sex marriages in all 50 states has been sparking hot debate. Some people are staunchly defending the new ...

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    • She Cheated On Me! Why Should She Receive Spousal Support Or My Pension?

      I recently had a conversation with a potential client who asked about how he could save on spousal support by proving that his wife cheated on him. First, if you encounter an attorney who tells you ...

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    • Can I Seek an Annulment From My Spouse for Failure to Consummate?

      Many clients come into our office to consult with our attorneys about whether or not they can get an annulment from their spouse after only a few weeks of marriage. They usually want to ask us if they ...

      Read More
    • But I Don't Even Earn That! How Courts Set Child Support and Spousal Support Obligations Using the Income You Don't Have

      "You can’t get blood from a stone”, is the old adage which often gives people comfort when they owe money to a creditor whom they cannot afford to repay. Well, as all of my clients can confirm, I ...

      Read More
    • What Is the Process of an Uncontested Divorce in New York?

      An uncontested divorce can be much easier and quicker than a contested divorce. In an uncontested divorce both spouses have to agree on every issue in their divorce. For an uncontested divorce to ...

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