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Divorce is never easy and, in one that is contested, it can be emotionally wrenching and hard on your wallet. If you and your spouse disagree over any of the issues involved in your divorce, then you are engaged in a contested divorce. You will have to sort out the issues and resolve them, either through negotiations outside of court or through court appearances.

Once all of the surrounding issues have been agreed upon, a divorce judgment can be handed down by the court. The issues which must be resolved include such matters as child custody, child support, child visitation, and equitable division of marital property.

How Much Is a Contested Divorce In NY?

Fault-Based Divorce In New York

In New York, you can file for divorce under the following fault-based grounds:

Cruel and inhuman treatment, such as physical, verbal, or emotional abuse;
Abandonment for a period of one or more years;
3 consecutive years in jail or prison for one of the spouses since the marriage began;
and
Adultery.

No-Fault Divorce In New York

New York also offers the following no-fault grounds for divorce:

Where one of the parties alleges that the marriage has been irretrievably broken for at least 6 months, or
After living apart for one year with a separation agreement or a court ordered judicial separation.

Do You Need a Lawyer For Divorce?

If the need for litigation arises, a divorce lawyer will be the aggressive force you need to help protect your legal rights and entitlements. As contested divorce attorneys with decades of practice, we focus on the needs and rights of divorcing men, and can give you the specific legal advice and guidance you need.

Whether you are contemplating a divorce or are already involved in one in which you and your spouse disagree over certain issues, you will need competent legal representation. We understand the complexities of New York and New Jersey domestic relations laws and know that the best way to resolve familial matters is through negotiations done outside of the courtroom. No judge knows your family better than you do. We will use our negotiation skills to help you get the results that will work for you and your family without the need for protracted litigation.

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Do I Need to Live in New York to File for Divorce in New York?

Before you can obtain a divorce in New York State, you must meet one of the following residency requirements:

The parties resided in New York as husband and wife, and either party lived in New York for one year or more prior to filing.
The cause of action occurred in New York, and either party lived in New York for one year or more prior to filing.
The cause of action occurred in New York, and both parties live in New York at the time of filing.
Either party has lived in New York for two years or more prior to filing.

The court cannot maintain jurisdiction over a divorce action unless one of these five residency requirements exists. Any challenge to residency must be raised during the divorce proceedings, and will not be entertained post judgment.

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Can I Start a Divorce Against My Spouse When I Reside in New York, but My Spouse Does Not Reside in the Country?

The short answer to this question is, generally, yes, however, this is a complicated issue and it is important for you to speak with an experienced attorney about the issues of service of process on your spouse pursuant to international law. When the country in which your spouse is to be served is a signatory to the Hague Service Convention, the documents to be served will need to be translated into the official language of that country and presented to a Central Authority authorized to effectuate service in that country. This is often a lengthy process, which includes the translation of legal documents, shipping of those documents abroad, and locating your spouse. Attorney Dow has experience organizing the service of international process and welcomes the opportunity to help you serve your internationally located spouse.

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