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  • Do I have to elect my ex as the beneficiary on my pension or retirement benefits?
    Do I have to elect my ex as the beneficiary on my pension or retirement benefits?

    Just like the money in your bank account, pensions and retirement benefits are marital property. Because of that, even though your spouse did not work for the benefit, he or she is entitled to share ...

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  • But it’s my pension!
    But it’s my pension!

    I often say that many of my clients want to protect their pensions from their spouses with the same fervor that they would protect a vital organ. During a divorce, it can seem unfair to have to share ...

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  • Don’t take the bait: Learning how to interact with your spouse during your divorce.
    Don’t take the bait: Learning how to interact with your spouse during your divorce.

    Does your soon-to-be-ex-spouse know what “buttons to push” to cause you to react in a way that is inflammatory or nasty? If you know that your spouse has this ability, then you must realize that he or ...

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  • "Don't worry, my divorce is uncontested!" Really, are you sure about that?

    I cannot tell you how many people come into my office believing that their divorce is uncontested simply because their spouse has told them that they don't want to "fight" or because they really ...

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  • Turning Fear Into Power When Happily Ever After Fades Away®: The Series ©
    Turning Fear Into Power When Happily Ever After Fades Away®: The Series ©

    The FEAR OF THE COST OF DIVORCE: Divorce just costs too much. I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle that. Like many of the other fears, this one is rational. The cost of a contested divorce, ...

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  • Turning Fear Into Power When Happily Ever After Fades Away®: The Series ©
    Turning Fear Into Power When Happily Ever After Fades Away®: The Series ©

    FEAR OF THE KID’S REACTION: Every parent wants their child to grow up in an as emotionally stable environment as is possible for you to create. Sometimes the act of creating stability actually ...

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